Saturday, January 24, 2009

Green cheese


As well-meaning parents, we strive to ensure the health and development of our children by offering fresh, nutritious, vitamin-rich foods. However, as a mother seasoned with 13 years of experience, I know all too well the pitfalls of toddler-hood--especially during mealtimes.

There was a time before Mary turned 2 when she ate practically anything that was presented to her. She ate broccoli like it was candy, devoured peas and carrots as if they were chocolate morsels, and munched on beans like they were potato chips. She welcomed all fruit, including pink grapefruit despite its mildly acerbic aftertaste. During this period of epicurean awakening, Mary’s absolute favorite meal was extra-firm tofu in bite size cubes with about a half-cup of red kidney beans and a handful of cubed mozzarella cheese. Today, as a precocious 3-year-old, her taste buds have decided to revolt against the best intentions of a healthy diet. As if, overnight, her taste buds staged a coup and ousted her cravings for healthier fare. Her repertoire of fruits and vegetables has been reduced to 5 kinds of fruit and baby carrots. She refuses to eat peas, corn, and other vegetables. Fortunately, Mary still likes tofu, 100% whole grain breads and pasta, and she will eat broccoli topped with a little bribery.

I decided to engage in a little deception. Drawing inspiration from a recipe book my mother gave me titled “Deceptively Delicious,” I invented something called “green cheese”. Its name might conjure up images of rancid cheese or mold on weeks-old bread; but it is, quite simply, spinach! Basically, I take finely chopped spinach and cover it up with cheese. This kind of deception works best on foods like homemade burritos, grilled turkey & cheese sandwiches, turkey cheeseburgers, or most foods that include cheese. The name came about one day when Mary asked me what the “green thing” was in her bean and cheese burrito. In a panic, I searched my brain for an answer to calm her suspicion. Suddenly, of its own accord, my mouth blurted, “green cheese”.

I knew for certain that Mary was sold on green cheese when she saw me chopping spinach yesterday to put in her grilled turkey & cheese sandwich. As expected, she asked, “Is that spinach?” I replied, “Yes, it is.” Sure enough, Mary whined, “But I don’t want spinach.” I firmly stated, “This is what we’re having.” To which Mary replied, “But I don’t want spinach. I want green cheese.” Success!

Now if I can only figure out a way to make deceptively delicious Brussels sprouts!


(P.S. The beautifully designed plate is a one-of-a-kind original made by Mary's big sister, Danielle).

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

The 6'4" Energizer Bunny

This past weekend, we had the fortune of having my parents stay with us for a couple of days. The children were excited upon learning that their Lolo and Lola were coming to visit. A few days before, Dan and I recapped the goings-on for the weekend in anticipation of their arrival. It was bound to be a very busy, but fun-filled weekend. Danielle and Joseph had piano lessons Friday evening. Later that night, after dinner, Danielle needed to finish reviewing for a high school entrance exam on Saturday morning that lasted 3 hours. There were 300 questions! On Saturday evening, Joseph had basketball practice; and on Sunday at noon, Joseph had a basketball game. Then there were the usual tasks like house chores, making sure piano practice and homework assignments were completed, and ensuring the overall care and safety of the children (no small detail). Dan had already planned the menu, but we still needed to shop for groceries and prepare their room. We had a wonderful weekend sharing stories, laughing, and eating together. But what impressed me the most was the manner in which Dan facilitated the entire weekend with deliberate planning, gracious hospitality, and selfless conduct. Saturday began with Dan preparing breakfast while Danielle and I readied ourselves to leave for the high school entrance exam that morning. Upon my return, it was a welcomed sight to see that Joseph and Mary already breakfasted, the kitchen sink was clean, and dishes were in the dishwasher. Dan then proceeded to work outside washing the car and doing a bit of yard work. When I had to leave to pick up Danielle, Dan fed the kids lunch and put Mary down for a nap. In the meantime, Danielle and I decided to do some brisk walking exercises at Valley Fair Mall to celebrate the completion of her test. We arrived home late afternoon, shortly before my parents’ scheduled arrival. Then it was Dan’s turn to shop – at Lucky Supermarket! As soon as he returned, Dan immediately set about preparing our dinner and setting the table. He worked at a frantic pace, all too aware of the advancing hour. He chopped, he mixed, he grated, he seasoned, he diced and sliced, using fresh ingredients like extra lean meat, cheeses, spinach, lettuce, tomato, and whole grain tortillas. While the meat was on simmer, he took a break only to take Joseph to basketball practice then returned expeditiously to finish what he had started. The end result was a mouth-watering and delicious taco and burrito bar, served buffet style. Everyone, including my sister and her husband who came to join us, enjoyed a truly satisfying and nutritious meal. Shortly thereafter, Dan had to leave once more to pick up Joseph from basketball practice. He returned just in time for dessert then proceeded to clean up in the kitchen. He first had to unload the dishwasher of clean dishes before loading the used dishes. Meanwhile, the children played and the adults sat around the table engaging in post-mealtime conversation. Just when I thought he was done for the night, Dan helped Joseph and Mary get ready for bed then tucked them in with a good book. That night, we both slept very little due to Mary’s crying spells every hour, or so it seemed. She complained of a tummy ache, regurgitated a few times the next morning, and had a sickly stomach for the whole of Sunday. Sleep deprived though we were, one wouldn’t know it by the way Dan bounced out of bed, showered, and proceeded to set the table and prepare our breakfast. This time, he prepared a succulent dish of chilli relleno, chilli peppers stuffed with cheese and baked in an egg mixture. Served with a side of hash browns and a cup of freshly brewed coffee, it was a delectable way to start the day. What made it even more special was that Dan served each of us at the table. Not long after breakfast, my parents packed up to leave, and Dan started to clean up the breakfast mess. He stopped briefly to walk them outside and carry their baggage. Once the kitchen was in order, Dan took Joseph to the basketball game while Danielle and I stayed behind with Mary who was still experiencing some discomfort. After the game, Dan had a quick bite to eat then he was off to work on his mother’s yard! It was nearly dinner time when he returned a few hours later. Moments after walking through the door, Dan set the table and started with dinner preparations. We ate, we talked, we joked, we cleaned up, then we retired for the night. Whew! What a weekend it was.

Dan bested himself by being the 6’4” energizer bunny; but more significantly, he was the star that shone brightly with the love of Jesus. And to reiterate a bible verse from The Schneider Web:


2 Corinthians 9:7 reads: So let each one give as he purposes in his heart, not grudgingly or of necessity, not reluctantly or under compulsion; for God loves a cheerful giver.

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

The Epiphany and the Star of Bethlehem


This past Sunday, Father Bennett gave a moving homily to commemorate The Epiphany, the manifestation of Christ to the Magi. We celebrate The Epiphany on January 6. Father Bennett related the story of the Magi and their search for the newborn king. The Magi were pagans, but the epiphany of God incarnate opened their hearts to divine revelation and moved them to worship. Throughout their journey the Magi followed the Star of Bethlehem, and it was this shining star that led them to the place where their souls were transformed forever.

One of the most enduring images of Christmas in the Philippines is the parol, a star-shaped Christmas lantern representing the star of Bethlehem that guided the wise men to the nativity of Jesus. In the Philippines, the parol has become an iconic symbol of a Filipino Christmas and is as important to Filipinos as the Christmas tree is to American culture. During the Christmas season, one only need walk down city sidewalks to see a colorful spectacle of parols on display. The first parol was crafted in 1928 out of bamboo sticks and crepe paper illuminated by a single candle inside the lantern. The parol has since evolved into more elaborate designs using various materials like plastic, tinsel, foil, wood, metal, glass, capiz and other seashells. They come in various shapes and sizes and some are even fitted with electric lights. I had the pleasure of making, for the first time, my very own parol! It was used during our church Christmas festival on Dec. 21. The parol I crafted was of the simpler variety fashioned out of bamboo sticks, plastic, and tinsel. Nevertheless, I was immensely proud of its symbolic beauty; not to mention the hours spent handcrafting it together. (Special thanks to my wonderful husband, Dan who took extra steps to make sure the pieces were securely fastened).

During his homily, Father Bennett painted a beautiful illustration of the star's respresentation. “The star can be understood to represent our encounter with God.” Like the Wise Men, we must look intently for that star that is within each of us and let it shine brightly for all to see. For when we do, it is Jesus who shines forth within us. At some point during the homily, I was struck with an epiphanic moment: I wanted to be that star that shines ever so brightly for my husband, my children, family members, friends, and everyone I encounter. Father Bennett’s words were soul-awakening, his conviction was strong, and the message was life-changing. With attentive ears and softened hearts, we listened. And, to borrow a line from my sister's Christmas letter, "we received new lenses with which to see the world and our purpose-driven lives."
Take a look at these Christmas stars:









I made this one!














colorful capiz shells



















parol with electric lights














bamboo tiles














wood shavings

Thursday, January 1, 2009

Let the Son Shine In


Danielle, Joseph, and Mary spent part of New Year's Eve and New Year's Day quietly making suncatchers, one of many Christmas gifts they received from Aunt Linda. A mere photo doesn't do justice. Their colors come alive once sunlight shines through them! Each suncatcher is as unique and colorful as each of their personalities. Designs range from themes of flora and fauna to geometric shapes and patterns. The possibilities are endless. But more than a fanciful craft, these suncatchers represent the kind of world I hope for in 2009.

A world colored with peace and goodwill
A world with tints of forgiveness and hues of reconciliation
A world with endless possibilities
A world where the Son always shines

Happy New Year to all!